Love!! The most written and the most unexplained topic.
I don’t know why today, why now and why at all I am writing about it. But there is something in my heart (not mind) which wants to come out. Which wants to be penned down.
Frankly speaking in my life I have never been able to understand this phenomenon known as LOVE. I don’t know what it is, how it happens, with whom you fall in love, why and how many times. I don’t know how to recognize who you actually love or who loves you really. I don’t know who is worth fighting for and who is gonna be with you till end.
Though I know one thing: love is when you are happy. When you look back on all the happy, most funniest, most secured and most serene moments of life, there are few faces which comes by default and that is what love is. When I look back, the first face is of my parents and my brother and I know I love them more than my life and same goes for that special person.
It does not matter if you start thinking about another new person in your life but you will come back to him in the end. It is not how much he earns, what is his status; the thing that matters is how happy is you with him. If he loves you he will do whatever you wish. He will earn to complete all your dreams, all your wishes.
I have seen people just to move away from other people because he is not that rich, he doesn’t earn as much as I am used to spending, he is not smart, he is not in a big company or at a big position or he is not of my caste. But life is very long and a point comes in your life when you realize that these things doesn’t matter. What matters was how much he loved me. How much he cared for me and how much was he willing to do for me.
All this goes for guys too. Just because she is beautiful, or she is your family’s choice or she is of same caste is not gonna make you happy for the rest of your life.
Life is too short to be wasted on these things and too long to overcome from the consequences of your decisions. Its truly said “life is what you make of it”. Its your life, you have to live it and till end the person who is going to be with you will be your spouse and not anyone else.
So choose wisely and never ever have a moment of regret. Because:
“Sometimes, it’s not the person you miss. It’s the feelings and moments you had when you were with them”
And those moments are exactly what you call LIFE. J J J
